25 Quotes by Mary Wesley
- Looking back, I understand that I was teaching myself to write.
- You know what it's like to persuade a pigheaded child to do something they don't want to. If they hear the same suggestion from someone else, they'll go right off and do it.
- Women's courage is rather different from men's. The fact that women have to bring up children and look after husbands makes them braver at facing long-term issues, such as illness. Men are more immediately courageous. Lots of people are brave in battle.
- We're all like children. We may think we grow up, but to me, being grown up is death, stopping thinking, trying to find out things, going on learning.
- We all lie to each other, present some sort of front.
- Unimaginative people are spared quite a lot. They're often much happier, because they don't go through all the variety of conceptions of the person they love.
- Twenty years ago, I was living in a lovely cottage on the edge of Dartmoor but I couldn't afford to run a car.
- They may turn out to be a great disappointment, or perhaps they may be full of enchanting surprises.
- Rebecca is an example of how not to manage men. The rules of the game never change, it requires subtlety.
- People try much less hard to make a marriage work than they used to fifty years ago. Divorce is easier.
- Of course risk-taking does not always pay off, but it's a lot of fun!
- A lot of people stop short. They don't actually die but they say, 'Right I'm old, and I'm going to retire,' and then they dwindle into nothing. They go off to Florida and become jolly boring.
- My father was a soldier and my mother was a great mover. She once counted up how many places she had lived in during the first 25 years of her marriage and it came to 20.
- It was pretty awful for us children because we never really knew the local children. Mother was keen for us to learn languages, so our travels took us to France and Italy, as well as the West Country.
- It seemed sensible to move to a market town where I could walk everywhere.
- In my eighties, my best friends are in their fifties, and I have many friends at university. It keeps one young, and up with the vocabulary. That's terribly important, especially for a writer.
- I was sent to a finishing school, which didn't last long when mother found out how badly chaperoned we were. Then I 'came out' before going to a domestic science school.
- I remember the evacuee children from towns and cities throwing stones at the farm animals. When we explained that if you did that you wouldn't have any milk, meat or eggs, they soon learned to respect the animals.
- I never really know the title of a book until it's finished.
- I have deliberately left Sylvester and Julia's appearances to the reader's imagination.
- I found out only recently that we were making an index of enemy code signs.
- I always read that men don't like intelligent girls, but I've always found the reverse.
- Each marriage has to be judged separately, and we never know what's going on in another person's marriage.
- I don't write for any particular kind of person.
- I have a garden, and I'm passionately interested in young people.
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